NRI Marriage and Desertion and Annulment Abroad
In an important Supreme Court case on NRI marriages, the Court refused to treat the father‑in‑law with sympathy where his conduct had contributed to the Indian wife’s desertion and ruin, and instead protected the deserted wife’s right to compensation through an ex parte money decree. This judgment is a powerful reminder that in NRI matrimonial disputes, Indian courts will look beyond “sympathetic words” and focus on real accountability and financial relief for the aggrieved spouse.
NRI Marriage, Desertion and Annulment Abroad
An Indian woman married an NRI in India; soon after the marriage, the husband returned alone to the United States, promising that he would arrange her visa and employment there. On his insistence, the wife resigned from her job in India, initiated visa formalities and reasonably expected to relocate and start her married life abroad.
However, after some initial follow‑up, the husband’s attitude became cold, and instead of taking steps to bring her to the U.S., he filed a petition in a U.S. court seeking annulment of the marriage. When the wife’s father wrote about her suffering, the husband did not respond positively; instead, the husband’s brother later visited India and handed over the foreign annulment petition and a letter from the wife’s father‑in‑law.
The Father‑in‑Law’s “Sympathetic” Letter and Its Limits
In his letter, the father‑in‑law expressed regret, claimed he “did not know” his son’s true nature, and conveyed that he “shared her grief,” framing the episode almost as an “unfortunate experiment” that had gone wrong. Crucially, the letter did not offer any concrete proposal for compensation or rehabilitation, despite acknowledging the drastic impact on the young wife who had given up her job and marital future based on the family’s assurances.
The Supreme Court observed that “accepting moral responsibility,” professing ignorance about the son and offering soothing words were “of little avail” to the deserted wife in such circumstances. What was needed was not merely sympathy, but a practical solution—especially when the father‑in‑law had actively projected his son and family, and his representations had influenced the wife’s life‑altering decisions.
Suit for Damages and Ex Parte Decree
Left deserted, unemployed and emotionally shattered, the wife had no realistic alternative but to file a civil suit for damages against both her NRI husband and father‑in‑law, pleading that their conduct had ruined her life. She sued in forma pauperis (as an indigent person) because she lacked the means to pay court fees; the father‑in‑law even contested her pauper application, but without success.
The trial court ultimately passed an ex parte money decree in her favour for approximately Rs 22 lakhs, holding the NRI husband and his father jointly liable in damages. This decree recognised not only the emotional trauma and desertion, but also the economic loss caused by her resignation and the collapse of her legitimate expectation of a married life abroad.
The trial court ultimately passed an ex parte money decree in her favour for approximately Rs 22 lakhs, holding the NRI husband and his father jointly liable in damages. This decree recognised not only the emotional trauma and desertion, but also the economic loss caused by her resignation and the collapse of her legitimate expectation of a married life abroad.
High Court Stay and Supreme Court’s Modification
In appeal filed by the father‑in‑law, the High Court stayed execution of the ex parte decree, subject to his depositing Rs 1,00,000 within one month. It allowed the wife to withdraw 50% of that amount, thereby giving her some interim relief while the appeal remained pending.
Before the Supreme Court, the father‑in‑law argued for further indulgence, citing financial helplessness and reiterating his earlier “sympathetic” stance. The Supreme Court, however, declined to view the case as one warranting sympathy for him; it underscored that this was a money decree obtained by a deserted wife who had already suffered grave hardship.
The Court modified the High Court’s order by directing that execution of the decree would remain stayed only if the respondents deposited Rs 3,00,000 (inclusive of the earlier Rs 1,00,000) within two months with the Registrar of the High Court. The wife was permitted to withdraw Rs 1,00,000 without security, while the balance Rs 2,00,000 would be kept in fixed deposit in a nationalised bank with monthly interest payable to her, subject to further orders if the appeal was not decided within a reasonable time..
Private International Law Concerns and Need for Reform
The judgment also highlighted the complex private international law dimensions of NRI matrimonial disputes, especially when foreign courts pass decrees for annulment or divorce contrary to Indian law and the interests of Indian spouses. The Court suggested that with rising NRI marriages, Parliament should consider a specific legislation on recognition and enforcement of foreign matrimonial judgments, similar to the British Foreign Judgments (Reciprocal Enforcement) Act, 1933 and reciprocity mechanisms akin to Section 44‑A of the Code of Civil Procedure.
The Court even indicated broad policy directions: that marriages between NRIs and Indian women solemnised in India should not be lightly annulled by foreign courts; that adequate alimony must be secured in both Indian and foreign assets of the husband; and that Indian decrees in such cases should be made executable abroad through bilateral or multilateral arrangements. These suggestions continue to inform discussions on the NRI Marriages legislation and cross‑border matrimonial protection for Indian women.
Key Takeaways for Deserted Wives in NRI Marriages
This case sends several strong messages:
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Mere expressions of regret or moral responsibility by in‑laws are not enough where their conduct helped induce the marriage and the subsequent desertion caused serious economic and emotional harm..
- Indian courts can award substantial monetary damages in civil suits against NRI husbands and complicit relatives for desertion and fraud‑like conduct, especially when the wife has resigned her job or suffered quantifiable loss.
- Even if a foreign annulment or divorce petition is filed, Indian remedies—suits for damages, criminal complaints, maintenance proceedings—remain available, and courts may protect the wife through interim monetary arrangements even at the appeal stage
- For women and families confronting similar situations—where an NRI husband deserts the wife, files annulment/divorce proceedings abroad, or uses foreign jurisdiction to avoid responsibility—early legal advice is critical. Strategic steps may include: filing civil suits for damages, initiating maintenance and domestic violence proceedings in India, challenging foreign decrees where necessary, and securing interim protection over assets and income
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